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Equipping Divorced Christian Women with the Tools, Skills, and Daily Support They Need to Soar into their New Identity

You Made the Brave Decision to Leave. Now It’s Time to Build the Life You Deserve.

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You’ve taken one of the most difficult steps a Christian woman can take: choosing your safety and wellbeing by divorcing an abusive spouse.

Despite what you may have been told by your church, family, or friends, your decision wasn’t about breaking vows—it was about acknowledging that the covenant was already shattered by abuse. You’ve weathered the judgment, possibly even excommunication or rejection from your faith community. You’ve stood firm in your truth when others tried to silence you.

And now you’re standing in this new, unfamiliar territory, wondering: “Who am I now, and where do I go from here?”

  • Do you struggle with your identity now that you’re no longer someone’s wife?
  • Are you carrying shame or guilt about your divorce, despite knowing it was necessary?
  • Do you feel disconnected from your faith community or uncertain about your relationship with God?
  • Are you overwhelmed by the practical challenges of building a new life on your own?
  • Do you wonder if you’ll ever trust or love again?

I understand exactly where you are—because I’ve walked this path too, alongside hundreds of other Christian women.

What If Your Divorce Is Not the End of Your Story, But the Beginning of Your True Identity?

Imagine waking up each morning with:

  • A renewed sense of identity that goes far beyond your former role as a wife
  • Freedom from the shame and guilt that religious communities often place on divorced women
  • A vibrant, authentic faith that’s stronger and more personal than ever before
  • Confidence in your ability to make decisions and build a life you love
  • Peace in your co-parenting relationship with clear boundaries and reduced conflict
  • Hope for your future including the possibility of healthy relationships

This isn’t just possible—it’s happening right now for hundreds of divorced Christian women in our Flying Higher community.

DO IT!!! This program is a life-changer and life-saver! You will learn to change your brain's programming to become the whole person that you want to be. You will move forward into real freedom from the abusive past. No more being stuck in a whirlpool of emotions and bondage to old thinking! You can take charge of your life and learn to love yourself and others. This program is challenging and if you do the hard work, you will become the "real" you. You will be truly free."
- Flying Higher Member

Introducing

A Dynamic Live Mentorship Program for Christian Women Ready to Write the Next Chapter of Their Life

Flying Higher is not just another divorce recovery group. It’s a comprehensive transformation program specifically designed for Christian women who have left abusive marriages and are ready to build extraordinary lives beyond divorce. This is where divorced survivors become thrivers.

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...HERE'S WHAT MEMBERS ARE SAYING...

"Flying Higher has taken me on a journey of deeper healing and personal growth. I am now becoming the most authentic version of myself. I haven't felt this level of freedom, probably ever! Even just knowing this level is possible offers so much hope!"
- Sharon R.
"Flying Higher has unlocked the next level of healing beyond divorce. It has kicked my butt and caused me to focus on areas which only I have control. I am learning how to develop the best version of me! It is hard work! But necessary for change in my thinking and approaching situations with my ex and other unhealthy relationships."
- Tamika C.

What You'll Receive When You Join Flying Higher Today: :

  • Core program of 25 courses (118 lessons) so you can grow the skills+motivation you need to accomplish any goal. You'll be able to learn and practice everything in bite-sized, doable steps.
  • Live optional book studies to dig deeper into self-development and forward movement. We provide the reading schedule and the book summaries. Meet together for two live book discussions with Natalie each month.
  • Live group coaching sessions every month so you can get personal help with specific areas that are holding you back. You can observe others in their process (which gives you clarity about your own issues!) or get coaching for yourself.
  • Monthly live classes on topics that matter to you.
  • Private online community forum of Christian women where you can build lifelong friendships with strong women, overcoming the same challenges you're working on.
  • Access to trained professional coaches throughout the month in this same private forum.
  • Sunday morning Bible studies twice a month. Many of our members, including me, were excommunicated for setting boundaries with our abusers and saying "no" to abuse. For members who love Jesus but get triggered by church, our Bible studies are the perfect "safe" way to connect with other believers.
  • Private podcast so you can listen to all the replays of your class lessons and coaching sessions on your time, at your convenience, using your favorite podcast app.
"Flying Higher takes one on a journey of deeper healing and personal growth. It is hard personal work but it has been transformational towards me becoming the most authentic version of myself. I haven't felt this level of freedom in probably ever! Even just knowing this level is possible offers so much hope!"
- Flying Higher Member
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Meet Your Guide:
Natalie Hoffman

I’ve been a passionate advocate, author, educator, podcaster, and professional coach for over a decade.

As a single divorced woman and as a survivor of lifelong emotional and spiritual abuse who has found my own wings, it has been my privilege to help women of faith rebuild their lives after abuse.

While you may be a survivor, you don’t want to “just survive” the rest of your amazing life on planet earth. You want to make a difference. I have a dream where women of faith are free to do—and be—all God created them to do and be.

Where they safely and joyfully fulfill the destiny their Creator has for them. Where some folks see broken dreams and piles of rubble, I see secret gardens just waiting for a green thumb.

Let’s work together to cultivate YOUR life and create a future that is intentional and rich with meaning.

 

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"I love this strong community of women. The classes accurately match where I am in this process of healing. I will use these resources long into the future for "ready reference" when I need to brush up on my skills. Flying Higher is meeting a need for Christian women that I have not found anywhere else."
- Jennifer P.

Wonder if you're ready for Flying Higher?

Consider what you've already accomplished...

  • You’ve broken free either internally or externally from a toxic relationship that was destroying you from the inside out.
  • You’ve weathered the storms of rejection from family and friends—and possibly even your faith community.
  • You’ve made some difficult and painful decisions that you never thought you’d make.
  • You’ve endured loss after loss—and still maintained your sanity.

 

And Now You're Ready to TUrn The Page and Begin a New Chapter of Your Story...

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a few women taking charge of their own story...

"Everyone could use this program in their lives. We do have control of our thoughts, feelings, and ultimately our actions. It has been life changing to realize how much I can control in a very unpredictable world. I’m now teaching my teenagers what you’re teaching me."
- Pam W.
“This is the key to healing! I understand myself and my relationships and why I do what I do much better. I am able to accept myself and have compassion for the person I was and am becoming. I am learning and growing and letting go. My feelings from circumstances that would paralyze me for days no longer control me.”
- Jessie G.
“Flying Higher encourages me to really think and address my destructive thoughts and know that I can change my thought patterns to make a better life for myself. I truly have hope for once in a very long time.”
- Lynn H.

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Monthly Subscription

$ 59 Per Month
  • Access to Core Curriculum
  • Book Studies
  • Group Coaching
  • Private Podcast
  • Bible Studies
  • Private Community Forum
  • Monthly Classes
  • Easy-to-use App
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Annual Subscription

$708
$ 590 Per Year
  • GET TWO MONTHS FREE
  • Access to Core Curriculum
  • Book Studies
  • Group Coaching
  • Private Podcast
  • Bible Studies
  • Private Community Forum
  • Monthly Classes
  • Easy-to-use App
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All the Details!

As soon as you join Flying Higher, you’ll get instant access to our powerful core training program + live coaching designed to meet members exactly where you’re at. Here is just a sampling:

You, Your Greatest Hero

Discover the real you—from the inside out—and unlock the path to your future best life.

Breaking Your Brain’s Addiction to Abuse

Stop being held hostage by outside circumstances, and start taking healthy steps toward detoxing your mind.

Get Anything Done

You know you should set goals, but how do you actually accomplish your intentions? Break the cycle of procrastination and shame, and get $h*t done.

Deconstruction: Your Journey in Faith

On your own, this process can be rocky…but in this safe circle of intentional women, we support each other as we playfully explore possibilities, so you can reclaim the faith you always wished you had.

Past, Present, and Future Focus

You may have been through a rough past, but in this course, you’ll learn how to reframe past experiences in a way that helps you see bright new possibilities for your present and your future.

Dare to Date

Discover the essentials of online dating apps: how to approach possible relationships in a healthy way, why self discovery is just as important as finding the “right” person, and how to face new prospects with a sense of playfulness and adventure.

Personal Finance

Get your personal finances in order by setting goals, creating a budget, and learning about credit, taxes, and investing.

Living Into Emotional Adulthood

Do you ever feel like you’re a little girl in an adult woman’s body? Learn how to lean into self-leadership and regulate your mind and emotions in empowering ways that will help you feel like the adult woman you are. 

How To Organize Your Life

Organization is so much more than just decluttering and moving things around. Discover how to live be design and not default. And it all starts in your brain. 

Leadership In Parenting

Parenting wasn’t what you thought it would be when you first held that newborn. If parenting has overwhelmed you and left you feeling like a failure, this course is for you. 

The Fear Cure

Let’s go to all the things that terrify us and hold us back. And then let’s learn about what we can do about it so we can truly be set free. 

Honoring The Body

Learn how to shift the priority from performance to honoring the gift of your human body through intuitive fitness—a gentle approach perfect for survivors of abuse and stress. 

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Are you ready to...

…feel the support of Christian women walking beside you as you transform from the inside out—together

Encounter fresh new ideas + processes that hone your decision making skills, so you can step bravely into the life you want 

Look back, 12 months from now, and celebrate the incredible personal growth and new-found strength you have as a result of Flying Higher?

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"Thank you for these past 3 months of instruction and insight. I know without a doubt that God led me to you and Flying Higher. For the first time, I am understanding what I was married to and why the confusion and pain were so great all those years of trying to have a happy marriage. I feel set free from the pain, guilt and shame that weren’t mine to carry!"
- Flying Higher Member

Some A's For Your Q's

How does membership work?

When you join, we will walk you through a tour of our incredible Kaleidoscope community and teach you how to use it. 

We have an amazing community success guide, Aimee, who will hold your hand and help you get set up. We are here every step of the way to answer questions and make sure you have a wonderful experience.

I’m not going to teach you how to change your life. You’re going to learn how to change your brain and love your body—and your brain and body will do the rest. The human brain is wired NOT to want to change anything. It likes to run on its regular operating system. And your body is hardwired chemically and hormonally to work in sync with your brain. That’s efficient and familiar.

But the ADULT YOU gets to decide today who you want to be six months from now. Not your brain or your body, which are still rooted in your past. But when you actually embrace and care for your brain and body, they will begin working in cooperation with you instead of on their own programmed terms of operation. You can totally do this.

You take time to shower, brush your teeth, and eat meals every day. You do these things because they are important habits, and your brain and body are used to them. They’ve gone along with what you’ve trained them to do each day, and they do it on auto-pilot.

Brain hygiene is just as important as body hygiene. And just like you get cavities or stink or get sick if you neglect your body, you get emotionally and physically ill when you neglect your mind.

And we all know how that feels, right? 

You can certainly keep the same life and the same results if you want, OR you can do something different by changing your brain’s programming. If you can commit to two hours of work here in the Flying Higher program per week, you will change your life. Two hours a week. That’s 20 minutes a day for six days.

We change our lives not by the huge decisions we make or the huge events that happen to us—but by the micro-decisions we make every single day.

Tuition for one year of classes, coaching, and support is $590. That’s about what you’d pay for 4-5 hours of counseling. 

If you prefer to pay on a monthly basis with the option to cancel anytime, we also offer a monthly option for $59 per month. 

We keep the tuition low because many women have tight budgets. If you have zero wiggle room in your budget, maybe this isn’t the right timing for you. But consider that most of us make things work if we really want something bad enough. And when we really want something – that’s the best time to make changes.

I also know that the changes you will make, if you put in the time and effort, are going to help you evolve into a version of yourself that will set you up for a better financial situation down the road. I’ve seen this happen in my own life and in the lives of hundreds of other women.

One Flying Higher member owned a business that really needed her to start showing up in videos, but she didn’t have the courage or self-confidence to take that step until she began doing the personal work in Flying Higher. Her hard work paid off, and she began taking risks and creating videos. Her first efforts were difficult and emotional, but she did it, and those videos boosted her revenue by thousands of dollars a year.

This is just one example of how the things you’ll learn in Flying Higher can change every area of your life.

Make Your Decision Today

Six months from now, you will either be:

The same divorced woman, still carrying the weight of your past marriage and struggling to find your footing…

OR

A transformed woman who has embraced her post-divorce identity and is actively creating a life of purpose, joy, and authentic faith—with the full support of coaches and a community who understand.
The choice is yours. The time is now.

YES, I'M READY TO FLY HIGHER.

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more client reviews

"This is the way to move forward after an abusive relationship! This is gaining power over your feelings and realizing the circumstances are not what's causing the problem, it's your thoughts. You have to put the time in and do the work. The results are amazing. You deserve this program. I'm so glad I decided to fly higher."
- Flying Higher Member
"I would encourage all women who have been or are in the process of a divorce and/or have been a part of an unhealthy marriage or church to go through Flying Higher. Whether we need to change patterns of thinking in our life, need to learn to be our own or another's advocate, or need to look ahead to the future and not to the past anymore or any number of other things, Flying Higher offers the structure and format to do these things in an emotionally safe but growing environment. It may be that we just need to learn to breathe and look around us and enjoy the beauty of our one God-given life........to actually experience the lifting of the burdens we weren't meant to carry is life changing. It brings a quality of life that I don't think I ever truly experienced until now."
- Flying Higher Member