What’s Wrong With My Christian Marriage?

You’re here because you’ve read all the marriage books, gone to counseling, bent over backwards to try to please your husband, and still, your marriage is coming up empty and running on fumes.

You’ve tried having all the conversations. You’ve explained everything in 5498 ways to try to make a connection. You just want to be seen and heard, but instead you are blamed and shamed for things you’ve never thought or done.

I wrote the book you haven’t read yet. But it’s the one book you’ve been looking for all these years. Because I wrote a book that will help you diagnose exactly what is going on in your marriage.

Remember the movie, The Matrix? My book is the red pill.

Take it. It’s time to unhook from the Matrix.

What’s Wrong With My Christian Marriage?

You’re here because you’ve read all the marriage books, gone to counseling, bent over backwards to try to please your husband, and still, your marriage is coming up empty and running on fumes.

You’ve tried having all the conversations. You’ve explained everything in 5498 ways to try to make a connection. You just want to be seen and heard, but instead you are blamed and shamed for things you’ve never thought or done.

I wrote the book you haven’t read yet. But it’s the one book you’ve been looking for all these years. Because I wrote a book that will help you diagnose exactly what is going on in your marriage.

Remember the movie, The Matrix? My book is the red pill.

Take it. It’s time to unhook from the Matrix.

Podcasts Episodes You Can Relate To

I Can’t Be Perfect Enough for My Husband

The Beliefs That Keep Christian Women Stuck in Abusive Marriages

Waking Up to Emotional Abuse so You Can Focus on Healing

By Natalie Hoffman

Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage

A Christian woman’s guide to hidden emotional and spiritual abuse.

One out of three married women sitting in an average conservative Christian church is in a confusing and painful marriage. If this sounds like you, join me on a journey of discovery that will change your life. We’ll look at exactly what is going on in your marriage (no more confusion!) and what a normal marriage looks like.

Available in Paperback, Audible and Kindle Formats

Instant Access to First Chapter

Companion Workbook

Guiding and Supporting You Through Each Chapter

This workbook is not a sweet, fluffy piece of candy that melts in your mouth and slips down your throat with a sigh of pleasure.Instead, it’s more like a surgical scalpel that will cut deep to the core of who you are and what you’ve experienced, and it’s going to hurt like crazy.

But it will bring you deep healing and hope for a better future, and there are warm blankets of comfort laid out for you here and there along the way.You are going to take the manure the enemy put into your life, and you’re going to make fertilizer. Fertilizer that will nourish the soil of your future and feed your new life.

“For I am about to do something new. See, I have already begun! Do you not see it? I will make a pathway through the wilderness. I will create rivers in the dry wasteland.”—Isaiah 43:19

Testimonials

Reviews by Readers

If there were PhDs to be given on the subject of emotional abuse, Natalie Hoffman would have earned hers ten times over. Natalie is remarkably knowledgeable and character-savvy when it comes to understanding the soul-death that occurs during the terror of emotional abuse. Furthermore, she brings the element of healing to the table. Any woman who questions herself while sensing deep, unrecognizable pain in her marriage should read Is It Me?
Megan Cox

MAR Pastoral Counseling, Founder of Give Her Wings, Inc.

This is an excellent resource—the kind of unvarnished truth that my precious sisters in Christ need in order to know they are not crazy, and the abuse they are enduring is not their fault. I will be prescribing this book immediately.
John Dotson

Licensed sychotherapist, Ordained Pastor, and Expert Traumatologist

Faith communities often inadvertently foster a climate of hidden abuse for a wide variety of reasons ranging from inaccurate theology to protecting the organization’s reputation. “Is It Me?” addresses this toxic reality behind the scenes that radically misrepresents the character of God in the Christian home, and shows women how to make sense of the systems of abuse that are clouding their vision and tearing them apart. Highly recommended!
Sarah McDugal

Leadership Development Coach, Author, Speaker

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