Category: Divorce

Why Your Lawyer Cringes When You Say “Narcissist” - The Narcissism Trap Series Part Three

Why Your Lawyer Cringes When You Say “Narcissist” – The Narcissism Trap Series Part Three [Episode 368]

In this third episode of The Narcissism Trap series, we shift from personal validation to legal strategy, exploring why the very word that brought you clarity could be the thing that sinks your court case. We’ll look at how judges actually view labels like “narcissist” and why focusing on clinical diagnoses can unintentionally dilute accountability and hand a “gift” to your ex’s legal team.

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Tax Tips and Tricks After Divorce

Tax Tips and Tricks After Divorce

In this episode of The Divorced Christian Woman Podcast, I’m joined by Diana Swillinger and accredited financial counselor and tax genius Dee Carter.

Whether you’re DIY-ing your taxes or outsourcing to someone, this one’s for you.

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Investing Basics After Divorce

Investing Basics After Divorce

“I’m not selling my house right now, so it doesn’t matter what it’s worth today.”

That one sentence changed everything about how I look at my INVESTMENT accounts. And if watching your investments go up and down makes you want to hide under the covers, you need to hear this analogy.

Today we’re talking about investing after divorce by breaking down the three buckets every divorced woman needs to understand, what to do with settlement money sitting in your bank account, and when you actually need a financial advisor versus when you can handle it yourself.

If you’ve ever thought “someone needs to rescue me financially,” this episode is for you.

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Money Mindset: How Our Beliefs About Money Impact Our Lives

Money Mindset: How Our Beliefs About Money Impact Our Lives

Welcome to Season 3 of the Divorced Christian Woman Podcast! This season we’re getting all up in your business (literally): the money business. And we’re kicking things off by asking: What’s your money mindset looking like after divorce? Is it cool, calm, and collected, or hiding in a closet stress-eating Oreos and ignoring the bill collectors?

I invited my friend and fellow coach Diana Swillinger to help us unpack the tangled web of beliefs we’ve inherited about money, and how to burn those unhelpful scripts to the ground so we can build a mindset that actually serves us.

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She Stopped Asking for Permission: Jillian's Story

She Stopped Asking for Permission: Jillian’s Story [Episode 365]

What happens when you stop asking for permission in an abusive marriage?

Today, Jillian shares her story of waking up to covert abuse in her Christian marriage and what it took to finally get out.

You’ll hear how she recognized the patterns, why she chose to leave despite having a young son, and what life looks like now on the other side. If you’ve been wondering whether things could actually be different, this conversation will show you what’s possible when you start rescuing yourself.

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Can AI Help Christian Women in Emotionally Abusive Marriages?

Can AI Help Christian Women in Emotionally Abusive Marriages? [Episode 364]

What if an AI could help you organize your abuse evidence, understand your trauma, and save you thousands in legal fees?

Aimee Says isn’t just another AI tool—it’s a specialized digital health platform that understands power and control dynamics, helps you document patterns of abuse, organizes your evidence for court, and keeps your data completely private and encrypted. Whether you’re trying to understand what’s happening in your marriage, preparing for custody battles, or just need someone to help you see the patterns you can’t yet name, this tool could change everything.

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