Reconciliation is not a requirement. It’s the desired outcome, but it can only truly take place when four things have happened.
To Forgive Doesn’t Automatically Mean To Reconcile
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Exploring Spiritual Abuse
Why Do I Feel Like I’m Going Crazy in My Marriage?
How do you respond when your partner sends you two totally different messages? One message says he loves you and will do anything to make things right. The other message says you’re making a big deal out of nothing, and you’re actually the problem. Which message is true?
When Your Abusive Husband Is a Pastor
When Lynn, a widow and registered nurse, met her abuser for the first time, she thought he was a safe bet. Who could be safer than a pastor and former missionary? But once he had her hooked in, he tore down her dignity and identity through shaming and neglect. Lynn shares her long journey of waking up to the shocking reality that even religious leaders can be wolves in sheep’s clothing.
Am I the Problem in My Marriage?
You’re the problem. An angry woman, a discontent wife, a troublemaker, the ungodly one. You’ve heard this over and over, in your mind, at church, and from your husband. Why can’t you get it together? Where do all the rage, frustration, and ugliness come from?
What if the question is the answer?
Abusers don’t ask if they are abusive.
Natalie, Daphne, and Rachel discuss the common reactions women have in destructive marriages that bring shame and confusion.
What Works (and What Doesn’t) When it Comes to Healing From Emotional Abuse?
Do you know what stands between a caterpillar and her butterfly destiny? A PERSONAL metamorphosis that involves a whole lot of mushy yuck.
In this article I’ll tell you what works and what doesn’t when it comes to healing from emotional abuse.
How Do I Forgive Someone Who Keeps Hurting Me?
Forgiveness is one of the ultimate Christian virtues, right after love. It “sets the prisoners free.” Except in your life. It keeps you defenseless and bound to a person, or people, determined to keep harming you. Forgiveness seems like a super highway to destruction, the restart button for more craziness and pain. So, should you keep forgiving someone who keeps hurting you…and how?
When God and the Bible are Weaponized Against Christian Women
There is a connection between spiritual and emotional abuse when churches use God and the Bible to power over and control Christian women.
When “Dying to Self” Isn’t Spiritual or Healthy
Self-denial sounds so unselfish, but is it? Learn how self-denial can be self-preserving and destroy healthy relationships.
Are We “Tearing Down Our House” When We Set Healthy Boundaries?
In an emotionally abusive marriage, you need to set boundaries with your partner. Here’s what to do if you get accused of “tearing down your house.”