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Emotional Abuse

Episode 78: Survivor Story – Julie

Episode 78: Survivor Story – Julie

While Julie experienced more overt abuse during her formative years, she ended up married to a quiet, covert abuser with a hidden lifestyle.

“The hidden abuse made far more lasting marks on my soul than the overt abuse I experienced as a child ever did.”

Find out what helped her decide to pay the price for freedom.

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Should Christian Wives Submit to Husbands No Matter What?

Should Christian Wives Submit to Husbands No Matter What?

When modern day Pharisees demand submission of half the human race rather than lifting up Christ’s Way of living in submission to one another, they continue the humanistic culture of power-over. It’s easy to do. Rules that control part of the human race make things simple. Walking by faith in the living, breathing Spirit of Christ and respecting the boundaries of other human lives is more complex and requires maturity, discernment, and a vibrant walk with Jesus. It’s not so black and white.

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Episode 77: Am I Codependent?

Episode 77: Am I Codependent?

If a tennis player is playing a game with someone who isn’t hitting the ball back, is that person still a real tennis player? Emotional abuse victims are often labeled as codependent. But we’d like to make a case for the idea that some victims may just be playing tennis with the wrong player, and they aren’t codependent at all.

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Episode 76: Why Religion Kills People

Episode 76: Why Religion Kills People

Author, speaker, and counselor, Bob Hamp, dives deep into the ways religion kills people. This is a fascinating interview about good, evil, and the connection that sets us free from both.

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Episode 75: Leaning Into The Grief Of Rejection

Episode 75: Leaning Into The Grief Of Rejection

An abuse survivor sees herself mirrored in the eyes of other people. What she sees is a distortion of who she is because other people don’t really know who she is all the time. To heal, she will need to see herself through a new lens.

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Episode 74: Survivor Story – Kathryn

Episode 74: Survivor Story – Kathryn

Kathryn loved God and tried everything she could to be a good Christian wife. But no matter what she did, her husband made sure she believed she was the poison in the relationship. Here’s how she got free.

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